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September 13, 2024

12 Surprising Lessons Every New Retiree Needs to Know

The blog post outlines 12 surprising lessons that retirees often encounter as they transition into retirement.

Retirement is often portrayed as the golden era of life—where every day is a vacation, and time is finally yours to spend as you wish. However, the transition into retirement can be full of unexpected challenges and revelations. Drawing from my experience as a financial adviser, I've walked alongside many individuals as they navigate this significant life change. Here are 12 surprising lessons that may catch you off guard as you embark on your retirement journey.

1. Social Security Timing is Crucial

When it comes to starting Social Security, the timing of your decision can have a ripple effect on your financial health. It influences not just your taxes but also your healthcare costs between 60 and 65, thanks to the Affordable Care Act credits. In some cases, the decision can even determine whether you've saved enough to comfortably retire or if you might face financial shortfalls.

2. Retirement Might Improve Your Health

It’s common to hear about retirees enjoying better health once they leave the workforce. With more time on their hands, many start eating healthier, sleeping better, and exercising more—sometimes walking 5 to 10 miles a day. The benefits can be substantial, leading to weight loss and a general improvement in well-being.

3. Unexpected House Guests: Kids or Grandkids Moving Back In

Just when you think your nest is empty, life can throw you a curveball. Whether it's a job loss or another life setback, it's not uncommon for children or even grandchildren to move back in. This can be a surprising shift just as you’re adjusting to your newfound freedom.

4. Retirement Might Not Be What You Expected

Some people retire early, only to find that without their spouse or friends around, life can get a bit lonely. This realization often leads them to return to the workforce, seeking the fulfillment they thought retirement would bring but didn't.

5. Spending in Retirement Can Get Away From You

That first year of retirement often surprises people with how much they end up spending. Despite having a budget, actual spending can far exceed expectations, forcing a quick readjustment to maintain long-term financial health.

6. Work Provided More Purpose Than You Realized

Work isn't just about earning a paycheck—it also provides structure and a sense of purpose. Many retirees struggle with the adjustment, feeling adrift without the routine and goals work provided. It's essential to retire to something, not just from something.

7. The Joy of Sleeping In

A simple yet common delight among retirees is the freedom from the alarm clock. The ability to wake up naturally is often cited as one of the greatest pleasures of retirement.

8. Tax Surprises from Selling Your Home or Property

Selling your primary residence or a rental property can lead to unexpected tax consequences, such as income-related Medicare adjustments. These can drastically increase your Medicare Part B premiums, a financial surprise that can strain your budget.

9. The Impact of Required Minimum Distributions (RMDs)

Many retirees don't fully grasp how required minimum distributions (RMDs) will impact their taxes. Starting at age 73, RMDs can push you into a higher tax bracket, affecting your Social Security benefits and overall financial plan. Considering Roth conversions early on might help mitigate this issue.

10. Healthcare Costs Can Skyrocket with Increased Income

Early retirees, especially those managing their income to maximize Affordable Care Act credits, may find that a large income event—like a big IRA withdrawal—can dramatically increase their healthcare costs. This could mean the difference between paying a few hundred dollars a month for insurance versus thousands.

11. Retirement is Busier Than You Think

Many retirees are surprised at how busy they become, often wondering how they ever found time to work full-time. Whether it’s due to a lack of daily structure or simply filling the day with activities, retirement can be more hectic than anticipated.

12. The Challenge of Switching from Saving to Spending

After a lifetime of saving, it can be tough to shift into a spending mindset. Watching your account balances decrease as you make withdrawals can be unsettling, even though it’s what you’ve been saving for all along.

These 12 lessons highlight the importance of thoughtful planning and flexibility as you transition into retirement. By preparing for these surprises, you can navigate your retirement years with greater confidence and peace of mind.

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Jason Parker, RICP®, is a best-selling author of Sound Retirement Planning and Retirement Calculator. He is the creator of the Retirement Budget Calculator and the host of the highly acclaimed Sound Retirement Radio podcast, which has garnered over 2 million downloads. Jason is a recognized expert in the field of retirement planning, frequently appearing on major networks like ABC, FOX, and NBC. As the President of Parker Financial LLC, an independent, fee-only registered investment advisory firm, Jason upholds his commitment to fiduciary principles, ensuring that his clients' best interests are always the top priority. He holds the advanced designation of Retirement Income Certified Professional (RICP®), reflecting his deep expertise in retirement income strategies.

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